reality of Life

Really Worth reading.........

Think about it... It's another morning......... Again I have to go to the office. Ohh!! this is me... I shouted, having a glance at my ‘photo’ in today's news paper. But what the HELL  is it doing in the death column?? Strange... One second.......Let me think, last night when I was going to bed I had a severe pain in my chest, but I don't remember anything after that, I think I had a sound sleep. It's morning now, ohh....... It's already 10:00 AM, where is my coffee? I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to irritate me.. Where is everyone...??? I screamed. "I think there is a crowd outside my room, let me check." I said to myself. So many people..... Not all of them crying...... But why are some of them crying.... WHAT IS THIS??? I’m lying there on the floor... "I AM HERE" ....... I shouted!!! No one is listening. "LOOK I AM NOT DEAD" .... I screamed once again!! No one is interested in me. They all were looking at me on the bed. I went back to my bed room. "Am I dead??" I asked myself... Where is my wife, my children, my Mom, my Dad, my friends? I found them in the next room, all of them were crying...still trying to console each other. My wife was crying... she was really looking sad. My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just because his Mom was sad.. How can I go without saying to my kid that I really love him, I really do care for him. ?? How can I go without saying to my wife that she is really the most beautiful and most caring wife in this world..?? How can I go without saying to my parents that I’m what I am ... just because of you?? How can I go without telling my friends that without them perhaps I would have done most of the wrong things in my life... thanks for being there always when I need them...and sorry for not being there when they really need me.. I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears.... Oh.... he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made us part, and we both have a strong enough ego to keep us disconnected. I went there..... And offered him my hand, "Dear friend.... I just want to say sorry for everything, we are still best friends, please forgive me." No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego, I am saying sorry... even then!!! I really don't care for such people. But one second...... It seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see my extended hand. My goodness...... AM I REALLY DEAD??? I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying... "OH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS..." I just want to make my wife, my parents; my friends realize how much I love them..... My wife entered the room, she looks beautiful. "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" I shouted. She didn't hear my words, in fact she never heard these words because I never said this to her. "GOD!!!!" I screamed... a little more timeplzzzzz... I cried... One more chance please... to hug my child, to make my mom smile just once, to feel my dad proud of me at least for a moment, to say sorry to my friends for everything I have not given to them, and thanks for still being in my life.... Then I looked up and cried!! I shouted....... "GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!" "You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up. "Did you have a nightmare?" I was sleeping.... Ohh that was just a dream.... My wife was there... she can hear me... This is the happiest moment of my life... I hugged her and whispered.... "YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE IN THIS UNIVERSE..... I REALLY LOVE YOU, DEAR" I can't understand the reason of the smile on her face with some tears in her eyes, still I’m happy.... "THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS SECOND CHANCE." SO, now it's not late... Forget the egos, the Past... and express your love to others....... Be friendly... Keep smiling...... forever....It is another chance For you... Please let us do things more sincerely...

meaningless goals

MEANINGLESS GOALS

A farmer had a dog that used to sit by the roadside waiting for vehicles to come around. As soon as one came he would run down the road, barking and trying to overtake it. One day a neighbour asked the farMer "Do you think your dog is ever going to catch a car?" The farmer replied, "That is not what bothers Me. What bothers me is what he would do if he ever caught one."

Moral :Many people in life behave like that dog who is pursuing meaningless goals. Lets focus on thing which is worth focusing on. Dont do the thing which is not requrie to do at all

A group of frogs were travelling through the woods

A group of frogs were travelling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The
two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took
heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the
other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.

This story teaches two lessons:

1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day.

2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill them.

Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words... it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak
words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another

चाणक्­य भारती­य राजनी­ति और अर्थश­ास्त्­र

आज से करीब 2300 साल पहले पहले पैदा हुए चाणक्य भारतीय राजनीति और अर्थशास्त्र
के पहले विचारक माने जाते हैं। पाटलिपुत्र (पटना) के शक्तिशाली नंद वंश को
उखाड़ फेंकने और अपने शिष्य चंदगुप्त मौर्य को बतौर राजा स्थापित करने में
चाणक्य का अहम योगदान... रहा। ज्ञान के केंद्र तक्षशिला विश्वविद्यालय में
आचार्य रहे चाणक्य राजनीति के चतुर खिलाड़ी थे और इसी कारण उनकी नीति कोरे
आदर्शवाद पर नहीं, बल्कि व्यावहारिक ज्ञान पर टिकी है। आगे दिए जा रहीं उनकी
कुछ बातें भी चाणक्य नीति की इसी विशेषता के दर्शन होते हैं :

- किसी भी व्यक्ति को जरूरत से ज्यादा ईमानदार नहीं होना चाहिए। सीधे तने वाले
पेड़ ही सबसे काटे जाते हैं और बहुत ज्यादा ईमानदार लोगों को ही सबसे ज्यादा
कष्ट उठाने पड़ते हैं।

- अगर कोई सांप जहरीला नहीं है, तब भी उसे फुफकारना नहीं छोड़ना चाहिए। उसी तरह
से कमजोर व्यक्ति को भी हर वक्त अपनी कमजोरी का प्रदर्शन नहीं करना चाहिए।

- सबसे बड़ा गुरुमंत्र : कभी भी अपने रहस्यों को किसी के साथ साझा मत करो, यह
प्रवृत्ति तुम्हें बर्बाद कर देगी।

- हर मित्रता के पीछे कुछ स्वार्थ जरूर छिपा होता है। दुनिया में ऐसी कोई
दोस्ती नहीं जिसके पीछे लोगों के अपने हित न छिपे हों, यह कटु सत्य है, लेकिन
यही सत्य है।

- अपने बच्चे को पहले पांच साल दुलार के साथ पालना चाहिए। अगले पांच साल उसे
डांट-फटकार के साथ निगरानी में रखना चाहिए। लेकिन जब बच्चा सोलह साल का हो जाए,
तो उसके साथ दोस्त की तरह व्यवहार करना चाहिए। बड़े बच्चे आपके सबसे अच्छे
दोस्त होते हैं।
- दिल में प्यार रखने वाले लोगों को दुख ही झेलने पड़ते हैं। दिल में प्यार
पनपने पर बहुत सुख महसूस होता है, मगर इस सुख के साथ एक डर भी अंदर ही अंदर
पनपने लगता है, खोने का डर, अधिकार कम होने का डर आदि-आदि। मगर दिल में प्यार
पनपे नहीं, ऐसा तो ...हो नहीं सकता। तो प्यार पनपे मगर कुछ समझदारी के साथ।
संक्षेप में कहें तो प्रीति में चालाकी रखने वाले ही अंतत: सुखी रहते हैं।

- ऐसा पैसा जो बहुत तकलीफ के बाद मिले, अपना धर्म-ईमान छोड़ने पर मिले या
दुश्मनों की चापलूसी से, उनकी सत्ता स्वीकारने से मिले, उसे स्वीकार नहीं करना
चाहिए।

- नीच प्रवृति के लोग दूसरों के दिलों को चोट पहुंचाने वाली, उनके विश्वासों को
छलनी करने वाली बातें करते हैं, दूसरों की बुराई कर खुश हो जाते हैं। मगर ऐसे
लोग अपनी बड़ी-बड़ी और झूठी बातों के बुने जाल में खुद भी फंस जाते हैं। जिस
तरह से रेत के टीले को अपनी बांबी समझकर सांप घुस जाता है और दम घुटने से उसकी
मौत हो जाती है, उसी तरह से ऐसे लोग भी अपनी बुराइयों के बोझ तले मर जाते हैं।

- जो बीत गया, सो बीत गया। अपने हाथ से कोई गलत काम हो गया हो तो उसकी फिक्र
छोड़ते हुए वर्तमान को सलीके से जीकर भविष्य को संवारना चाहिए।
- असंभव शब्द का इस्तेमाल बुजदिल करते हैं। बहादुर और बुद्धिमान व्यक्ति अपना
रास्ता खुद बनाते हैं।

- संकट काल के लिए धन बचाएं। परिवार पर संकट आए तो धन कुर्बान कर दें। लेकिन
अपनी आत्मा की हिफाजत हमें अपने परिवार और धन को भी दांव पर लगाकर करनी
...चाहिए।

- भाई-बंधुओं की परख संकट के समय और अपनी स्त्री की परख धन के नष्ट हो जाने पर
ही होती है।

- कष्टों से भी बड़ा कष्ट दूसरों के घर पर रहना है। -